Separation Anxiety Training
Does your pup get anxious when left alone? It might be dealing with separation anxiety. Our Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) can provide effective solutions.
You are not alone! Studies suggest that between 20-50% of pet dogs suffer from separation-related issues.
Stress caused by separation anxiety can be overwhelming. The constant anxiety your dog experiences when left alone can lead to home destruction, noise complaints from neighbours, and incessant worry whenever you have to leave. It is the most discussed behaviour problem in the literature, and yet, the solution seems elusive.
For a deeper understanding of this debilitating condition, checkout our article explaining what is separation anxiety.
We want you to know that the majority of cases can be resolved with guidance from a trained professional. Treatment for separation anxiety involves humane and evidence-based methods, using the latest technology to enhance success. Through implementing customised, systematic desensitisation protocols, we gradually enhance your dog’s comfort with being alone, minimising panic and distress for all parties.
Our step-by-step training guide for Separation Anxiety will provide you an overview of what you can expect from our CSAT Professional!
Does your dog show these worrisome behaviours?
Suspect that your pup is suffering from separation-related problems? Contact us today!
*CSAT Qiai will conduct a preliminary assessment based on your observations and videos that you have of your dog, and run through your options moving forward. This 30-min online consultation (Zoom) is priced at $45.
Research tells us that..
- Separation anxiety is NOT caused by spoiling your dog, or failing to ‘show leadership’. it is a complex condition with factors like genetics and early environment potentially playing a role in its development.
- It seriously impacts your pet’s well-being and health, requiring proper treatment.
- Crate training, offering food toys or letting the dog ‘cry it out’ is ineffective and may cause more harm.
- Instead, success is more likely with carefully conducted, individualised systematic desensitisation.
Qiai is a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) who trained under world-renowned expert Malena deMartini.
Rest assured that you’re in capable hands, as behaviour specialist Qiai has undergone rigorous training in this competitive program. Backed by decades of collective knowledge, data, and experience, Certified Separation Anxiety Trainers (CSATs) are recognised as experts by Veterinary Behaviourists and international training organisations in effectively treating separation anxiety.
Using cutting-edge technology, we provide remote coaching to pet owners via online platforms like Zoom, Teams, or Google Meet. Remote training is especially effective for separation anxiety cases and offers the added advantage of accommodating your location.
To explore options for you and your pup, schedule a 30-minute information call (over Zoom) via our booking form.
Successful Track Record
If you think your dog may have separation anxiety, reach out to our Chief Behaviourist, Qiai. With proven CSAT techniques, she has a strong track record of helping dogs increase their comfort and duration of alone time.
Intensive Separation Anxiety Training Programme Details
Separation anxiety is one of the most distressing challenges a dog and owner can face – but it’s also one of the most treatable. Our structured, evidence-based programme works at your dog’s pace, with expert guidance every step of the way.
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4-week intensive programme
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Daily training plan, ongoing support and weekly assessments (30 min - 1 hr)
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Includes behaviour assessment (30 min - 1 hr)
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Fully online
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per 4-week blocks
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Daily training plan, ongoing support and weekly assessments (30 min - 1 hr)
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Fully online
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Separation anxiety training is a gradual process. Most dogs make meaningful progress within the first month, and many continue for 2–3 months for lasting results. We’ll always be honest with you about where your dog is at and what to expect next.
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FAQs on Separation Anxiety
How do I know if my dog has separation anxiety?
Separation anxiety in dogs typically presents in three distinct phases: the Leaving Phase, Separation Phase, and Return Phase. During the Leaving Phase, dogs may show stress-related behaviors such as pacing, whining, barking, or following you closely as you prepare to leave. In the Separation Phase, distress continues even after you have left, often resulting in destructive behaviors, accidents indoors, or excessive vocalization. The Return Phase is when dogs display extreme excitement, clinginess, or relief upon your return.
However, some dogs may only exhibit stress during one specific phase, like the Leaving Phase. While these behaviors can be concerning, they do not always indicate full separation anxiety. True separation anxiety is characterized by distress across multiple phases—Leaving, Separation, and Return—reflecting a deeper emotional response to being alone.
We have a detailed guide on identifying symptoms of separation anxiety in dogs. Take a read and reach out to us for more information!
Can separation anxiety in dogs be cured?
Yes, separation anxiety in dogs can be cured. It is indeed a challenging issue to address, but it has been effectively resolved numerous times by Certified Separation Anxiety Trainers (CSAT). These trainers have undergone rigorous training specifically focused on resolving separation anxiety problems in dogs. A CSAT is equipped with specialised techniques and strategies to help alleviate your dog’s anxiety, ensuring a more peaceful and confident pet. So, seeking out a dog trainer certified in separation anxiety can significantly improve your furry friend’s quality of life.
What to expect for Separation Anxiety Training?
Our Separation Anxiety Training is led by our Chief Behaviourist, a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT). CSATs undergo rigorous training and have access to a repository of evidence-based protocols proven to alleviate separation anxiety in dogs.
Expect a structured, step-by-step approach designed to deliver successful results and improve your dog’s well-being.
For more details, see our comprehensive guide on Separation Anxiety Training.
What is a CSAT dog trainer?
A Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) is a specialised professional dog trainer dedicated to helping dogs with separation anxiety. These experts have completed an intensive months-long coursework programme, which includes practical case studies designed to ensure they can effectively implement systematic desensitisation protocols proven to alleviate symptoms of separation anxiety.
For dogs struggling with being alone, these trainers offer a lifeline. By carefully and compassionately guiding your anxious dogs through a personalised training plan, they work to reduce the fear and stress your pets experience when left by themselves.
Our chief behaviourist, Qiai, who trained under the renowned Malena De Martini, is one of only two CSAT certified professionals in South East Asia, bringing her expertise and empathy to every dog trainer for separation anxiety case she handles.
What to do for Dogs with Separation Anxiety?
If you suspect your dog has separation anxiety, it is essential to consult a certified professional to verify the condition. Upon confirmation, partnering with a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) can be highly effective. A CSAT will guide you through Separation Anxiety Training Protocols, gradually easing your dog’s anxiety when they are left alone.
To help your dog manage separation anxiety, keeping them calm and comfortable is key. Options like hiring a pet sitter, enlisting help from family members, or enrolling them in our dog training school can provide the human companionship they need to feel secure.
Can a dog trainer help with Separation Anxiety?
Yes, there are professional dog trainers who specialise in addressing separation anxiety. These certified separation anxiety trainers have undergone rigorous training and possess extensive knowledge grounded in data and science. They utilise desensitisation protocols tailored specifically for dogs with separation anxiety, ensuring the most effective outcomes.
It’s essential to understand that separation anxiety is distinct from typical behavioural issues, necessitating specialised approaches by dog separation anxiety trainers. For more information on this condition, please refer to our article “What is Separation Anxiety“.
What is the difference between a professional dog trainer and a behaviourist?
A professional dog trainer is an expert in operant conditioning, proficient at shaping and reinforcing desired behaviours in dogs. Their role involves a structured approach to training, where positive reinforcement is frequently employed to encourage good behaviour.
On the other hand, a behaviourist delves deep into the full complexities of animal behaviour, including principles of classical conditioning which are crucial in understanding separation anxiety. When a dog exhibits undesired behaviours, a behaviourist is adept at identifying the root causes and developing protocols tailored to address these issues, whether they require operant, classical conditioning, or a combination of both. Separation anxiety is a classical conditioning issue, and cannot be resolved by treating at the operant conditioning layer.
It’s essential to recognise that the skills of dog trainers and behaviourists often overlap, and they frequently collaborate to provide the most comprehensive and beneficial support for the dog.
How long does Separation Anxiety Training Take?
The duration of separation anxiety training can vary widely, influenced by factors such as the dog’s anxiety levels, owner’s commitment, and the dog’s inherent traits. For some anxious dogs, improvement can be seen rapidly, such as increasing tolerance from 2 seconds to 20 minutes within a week. Others might experience a more gradual progress, from 5 seconds to 35 seconds over the course of a month. It’s crucial for pet owners to grasp the dedication needed to address symptoms of separation anxiety effectively. If you work from home or frequently need to close the door, the systemic desensitisation protocols implemented by CSAT professionals will ensure that the dog realises that these activities are not a big deal, thus slowly desensitising the dog to help manage anxieties. For a tailored plan and professional guidance, please schedule a call with our chief behaviourist to evaluate your dog’s specific animal behaviour needs.
How to train a dog out of separation anxiety?
Training a dog with separation anxiety requires a systematic and gentle approach, often best managed with the guidance of a certified separation anxiety trainer (CSAT). The foundational principles are recognising and addressing the activities you perform before leaving, known as pre-departure cues (PDQ), such as locking the door or picking up your keys. Begin the desensitization process without these cues, ensuring that the duration your dog is left alone varies and remains below their threshold of anxiety. Gradually, after your dog is comfortable being alone for increasing lengths of time, you can start to reintroduce the PDQs one at a time. Be prepared for potential setbacks as your dog adjusts. Continually repeat this process until your dog can handle all PDQs and achieve the desired duration of alone time. Though this is a simplified outline, partnering with a professional dog trainer for separation anxiety is crucial to effectively and humanely address your pet’s needs.
Remember, each dog’s journey with separation anxiety is unique, and professional guidance ensures a compassionate and successful outcome.
Which dog suffers most from Separation Anxiety?
While certain breeds can appear more susceptible to Separation Anxiety, it’s important to understand that any dog can be affected. This condition is a complex interplay of genetics and the environment in which a dog is raised. No definitive breed has been pinpointed as being more prone. Addressing this issue involves noticing the signs early on and using comforting techniques and gradual desensitisation. Remember, a loving and understanding environment plays a crucial role in easing their anxiety.
How do you prevent separation anxiety in dogs?
Separation anxiety in dogs can be challenging, but with the right approach, it can be managed effectively. While genetic factors and environmental triggers play significant roles, understanding the symptoms early on is crucial. It’s important to recognise signs like excessive barking, destructive behaviour, or accidents in the house. Once identified, collaborating with a professional separation anxiety trainer can help you create a customised plan to ease your dog’s anxiety. Remember, with patience and the right support, your dog can learn to feel more comfortable when alone.
Check out our article on home alone training for examples on what handlers should look out for to minimise the chances of separation anxiety developing in puppies.
Do Dogs grow out of Separation Anxiety?
Separation anxiety in dogs is a common concern and, unfortunately, it doesn’t usually resolve on its own. Addressing the issue through consistent training and supportive strategies can help manage and reduce anxiety symptoms over time. Ignoring the problem may lead to increased stress for your furry friend, making it harder to manage later on. Proactive steps, such as creating a comforting environment and gradually acclimating your dog to being alone, can significantly improve their well-being.
Do Treats help manage Separation Anxiety?
Many well-meaning pet owners use treats to ease separation anxiety, but this doesn’t address the real issue. Separation anxiety stems from the stress of your absence, not from introducing an aversive stimulus. When you leave, it triggers anxiety, which worsens the longer you’re gone. Research shows that pairing treats with your absence—known as counter-conditioning—doesn’t relieve anxiety and may even intensify it. This approach overlooks the core problem: your pet’s fear of being separated from you.
For a deeper understanding of why this method falls short, check out our detailed research breakdown of Shnookal et al. (2024).
Does Crate Training help with Separation Anxiety?
Crate training can provide a safe and comfortable space for your dog, but it is not a cure for separation anxiety. Dogs with separation anxiety feel stressed when they are left alone, and this anxiety can persist even when they are in their crate. Forcing your dog to be in a crate can also make your dog’s separation anxiety become worse, as they are unable to performing coping behaviours to alleviate their stress. You may also cause your dog to develop confinement anxiety or crate phobia! It’s important to address the underlying anxiety through gradual desensitisation and positive reinforcement to help your dog feel more secure when you’re not around.
Does ignoring your dog help with separation anxiety?
No, ignoring separation anxiety can actually make your dog’s distress worse. It’s important to address the issue with a kind yet structured approach, using techniques to help your dog feel more secure when you are away.
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