Separation Anxiety Training
Does your pup get anxious when left alone? It might be dealing with separation anxiety. Our Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) can provide effective solutions.
You are not alone! Studies suggest that between 20-50% of pet dogs suffer from separation-related issues.
Stress caused by separation anxiety can be overwhelming. The constant anxiety your dog experiences when left alone can lead to home destruction, noise complaints from neighbours, and incessant worry whenever you have to leave. It is the most discussed behaviour problem in the literature, and yet, the solution seems elusive.
For a deeper understanding of this debilitating condition, checkout our article explaining what is separation anxiety.
We want you to know that the majority of cases can be resolved with guidance from a trained professional. Treatment for separation anxiety involves humane and evidence-based methods, using the latest technology to enhance success. Through implementing customised, systematic desensitisation protocols, we gradually enhance your dog’s comfort with being alone, minimising panic and distress for all parties.
Our step-by-step training guide for Separation Anxiety will provide you an overview of what you can expect from our CSAT Professional!
Does your dog show these worrisome behaviours?
Suspect that your pup is suffering from separation-related problems? Contact us today!
*CSAT Qiai will conduct a preliminary assessment based on your observations and videos that you have of your dog, and run through your options moving forward. This 30-min online consultation (Zoom) is priced at $45.
Research tells us that..
- Separation anxiety is NOT caused by spoiling your dog, or failing to ‘show leadership’. it is a complex condition with factors like genetics and early environment potentially playing a role in its development.
- It seriously impacts your pet’s well-being and health, requiring proper treatment.
- Crate training, offering food toys or letting the dog ‘cry it out’ is ineffective and may cause more harm.
- Instead, success is more likely with carefully conducted, individualised systematic desensitisation.
Qiai is a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) who trained under world-renowned expert Malena deMartini.
Rest assured that you’re in capable hands, as behaviour specialist Qiai has undergone rigorous training in this competitive program. Backed by decades of collective knowledge, data, and experience, Certified Separation Anxiety Trainers (CSATs) are recognised as experts by Veterinary Behaviourists and international training organisations in effectively treating separation anxiety.
Using cutting-edge technology, we provide remote coaching to pet owners via online platforms like Zoom, Teams, or Google Meet. Remote training is especially effective for separation anxiety cases and offers the added advantage of accommodating your location.
To explore options for you and your pup, schedule a 30-minute information call (over Zoom) via our booking form.
Successful Track Record
If you think your dog may have separation anxiety, reach out to our Chief Behaviourist, Qiai. With proven CSAT techniques, she has a strong track record of helping dogs increase their comfort and duration of alone time.
EXCELLENT Based on 52 reviews Michelle Tan2026-01-18Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Best in class trainers to be found here in ATC! We have been sending our high energy puppy Ollie for regular sessions here for over a year now and have noticed an increase in his confidence and fitness levels. Importantly, the team always believed in Ollie’s potential even when sometimes we don’t! Thank you for upholding such high standards of principles and care in this industry❤️ Reiko Tan2026-01-18Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I went to the Puppy Holistic Development course and it really helped me learn how to handle my puppy with confidence! Class size was small so the coaches could come round and offer tailored advice for every pup. I would recommend it to anyone who is finding it hard to manage their puppy or adolescent pup. What I’ve learnt with Pet Coach definitely helped me get through the tough times. Tricia Lim2025-11-30Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. We have just completed the Puppy class to learn the foundational skills that we need to teach our high energy puppy. As a first-time dog owner, I find it essential to start right in order to prevent many unnecessary stress and certainly attending the Puppy Class at Pet Coach was a worthy investment. Qi Ai is highly experienced and good with explaining the reasons behind each skills so that we can have a clear behaviour outcome to work toward, of course with patience, persistence and consistency. We also have private training sessions with Qi Ai and have seen great improvement in our puppy behaviour. Still some way to go but we will get there with the guidance from Pet Coach! Babita Kotwani2025-11-25Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. My dog Molly and I went through the Project ADORE training with Qiai from PetCoach. As a rescue, Molly was very reactive to people coming into our space, which made me anxious about having her in an HDB flat and made it hard for visitors to come to our home. Qiai was absolutely brilliant with how she broke down the process for me. She explained how to desensitise Molly slowly, which was encouraging because the smaller steps felt manageable. She gave prompt and detailed feedback when I sent her videos of my training attempts with her. She has a calm presence, which made Molly feel instantly at ease with her. Even during the outdoor training, Qiai was very observant and perceptive of Molly's subtle shows of anxiety and told me what to look out for. Molly is now much calmer and we can actually have visitors at home. Thank you, Qiai, for your wonderful guidance! Ken Ang2025-11-08Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Nothing short of spectacular turnaround - Mi went from visibly unsettling moment pre departure cue was upon her to a calm and collected posture when I stepped out some 2 months later. Separation anxiety overcame! Credits go to QiAi who has been extremely professional demonstrating mastery and competency at the highest level. Joyce2025-10-12Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Sent my high energy puppy for the puppy group class. Very impressed by Qiai and her team, they were able to manage and adjust the environment in class to cater to the needs of different pups. They definitely have much experience with herding/working breeds which tend to be more challenging to manage. My puppy enjoyed the class and loved all the trainers very much. The lesson plan was useful and could be applied to our daily training. Although we still have a long way to go until the end of adolescence, the lessons really help my pup focus more and calm down faster in exciting situations. Karen Wong2025-09-08Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Bruce has been going to Petcoach since he was 5 months old, in a bid to socialize him early as well as strengthen his hind and core due to his breed (mini doxie). Bruce is not the easiest pup, with a sophisticated palette (aka not food motivated) and an independent nature (aka stubborn) but the trainers at Pet Coach took every avenue and ounce of patience to coach him into the confident and spritely pup that he is. I’ve gotten many comments on how much stronger, fitter and confident Bruce has gotten since he started! I appreciate that the team there gives regular updates, develop exercises suitable for each individual dog’s ability and temperament with a lot of 1-on-1 time. It also helps that all of them are amazing humans who not only love dogs, but take time to coach owners as well. Not to mention , possessing a wicked sense of humor! C AS2025-08-31Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. We are incredibly happy with the training we’ve received from Qiai! From the beginning, the approach has been clear, supportive, and entirely based on positive reinforcement—which has made a huge difference in both our dog’s behavior and our bond with them. Qiai is an excellent trainer. She explains each step with clarity and patience, making it easy for us to stay engaged and confident in the process. Her calm, encouraging style created a positive environment not just for our dog, but for pawrents as well. Highly recommend her to anyone looking for a knowledgeable and compassionate dog trainer! Jerry2025-08-31Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. We are very grateful to have Qi Ai as Huat Kueh’s coach. Her instructions are always clear, and the sessions are not only helpful for our dog but also very enjoyable for us as parents. Each season, we learn new techniques and methods to better train Huat Kueh. Often, we realize the training is just as much about teaching us—reminding us to give clear, consistent instructions and to be patient. Qi Ai’s guidance has made a big difference, and we truly appreciate her dedication and support. 👍🏼 Dhania Nair2025-08-19Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Our dog has been attending Pet Coach’s dayschool programme consistently and the difference has been amazing. Not only has he become fitter and healthier, but I can also see how much more confident he is thanks to their customized, force-free approach that’s rooted in science and compassion. What stands out is how thoughtfully structured each day is, and I appreciate that they don’t just train my dog—they also teach us as his guardians how to continue progress at home through skills-transfer sessions and provide consistent feedback with extraordinary attention to detail. The entire team at Pet Coach truly understand each dog’s needs and meet them where they are, which makes all the difference. It gives me such peace of mind knowing he’s in such capable and caring hands. In an unfortunately highly unregulated industry, I deeply admire their dedication and commitment to ethically building confidence, resilience and lifelong bonds. If you’re looking for a programme that’s grounded in science, compassion, and individualized support, PetCoach SG is the real deal and we highly recommend them!
FAQs on Separation Anxiety
How do I know if my dog has separation anxiety?
Separation anxiety in dogs typically presents in three distinct phases: the Leaving Phase, Separation Phase, and Return Phase. During the Leaving Phase, dogs may show stress-related behaviors such as pacing, whining, barking, or following you closely as you prepare to leave. In the Separation Phase, distress continues even after you have left, often resulting in destructive behaviors, accidents indoors, or excessive vocalization. The Return Phase is when dogs display extreme excitement, clinginess, or relief upon your return.
However, some dogs may only exhibit stress during one specific phase, like the Leaving Phase. While these behaviors can be concerning, they do not always indicate full separation anxiety. True separation anxiety is characterized by distress across multiple phases—Leaving, Separation, and Return—reflecting a deeper emotional response to being alone.
We have a detailed guide on identifying symptoms of separation anxiety in dogs. Take a read and reach out to us for more information!
Can separation anxiety in dogs be cured?
Yes, separation anxiety in dogs can be cured. It is indeed a challenging issue to address, but it has been effectively resolved numerous times by Certified Separation Anxiety Trainers (CSAT). These trainers have undergone rigorous training specifically focused on resolving separation anxiety problems in dogs. A CSAT is equipped with specialised techniques and strategies to help alleviate your dog’s anxiety, ensuring a more peaceful and confident pet. So, seeking out a dog trainer certified in separation anxiety can significantly improve your furry friend’s quality of life.
What to expect for Separation Anxiety Training?
Our Separation Anxiety Training is led by our Chief Behaviourist, a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT). CSATs undergo rigorous training and have access to a repository of evidence-based protocols proven to alleviate separation anxiety in dogs.
Expect a structured, step-by-step approach designed to deliver successful results and improve your dog’s well-being.
For more details, see our comprehensive guide on Separation Anxiety Training.
What is a CSAT dog trainer?
A Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) is a specialised professional dog trainer dedicated to helping dogs with separation anxiety. These experts have completed an intensive months-long coursework programme, which includes practical case studies designed to ensure they can effectively implement systematic desensitisation protocols proven to alleviate symptoms of separation anxiety.
For dogs struggling with being alone, these trainers offer a lifeline. By carefully and compassionately guiding your anxious dogs through a personalised training plan, they work to reduce the fear and stress your pets experience when left by themselves.
Our chief behaviourist, Qiai, who trained under the renowned Malena De Martini, is one of only two CSAT certified professionals in South East Asia, bringing her expertise and empathy to every dog trainer for separation anxiety case she handles.
What to do for Dogs with Separation Anxiety?
If you suspect your dog has separation anxiety, it is essential to consult a certified professional to verify the condition. Upon confirmation, partnering with a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer (CSAT) can be highly effective. A CSAT will guide you through Separation Anxiety Training Protocols, gradually easing your dog’s anxiety when they are left alone.
To help your dog manage separation anxiety, keeping them calm and comfortable is key. Options like hiring a pet sitter, enlisting help from family members, or enrolling them in our dog training school can provide the human companionship they need to feel secure.
Can a dog trainer help with Separation Anxiety?
Yes, there are professional dog trainers who specialise in addressing separation anxiety. These certified separation anxiety trainers have undergone rigorous training and possess extensive knowledge grounded in data and science. They utilise desensitisation protocols tailored specifically for dogs with separation anxiety, ensuring the most effective outcomes.
It’s essential to understand that separation anxiety is distinct from typical behavioural issues, necessitating specialised approaches by dog separation anxiety trainers. For more information on this condition, please refer to our article “What is Separation Anxiety“.
What is the difference between a professional dog trainer and a behaviourist?
A professional dog trainer is an expert in operant conditioning, proficient at shaping and reinforcing desired behaviours in dogs. Their role involves a structured approach to training, where positive reinforcement is frequently employed to encourage good behaviour.
On the other hand, a behaviourist delves deep into the full complexities of animal behaviour, including principles of classical conditioning which are crucial in understanding separation anxiety. When a dog exhibits undesired behaviours, a behaviourist is adept at identifying the root causes and developing protocols tailored to address these issues, whether they require operant, classical conditioning, or a combination of both. Separation anxiety is a classical conditioning issue, and cannot be resolved by treating at the operant conditioning layer.
It’s essential to recognise that the skills of dog trainers and behaviourists often overlap, and they frequently collaborate to provide the most comprehensive and beneficial support for the dog.
How long does Separation Anxiety Training Take?
The duration of separation anxiety training can vary widely, influenced by factors such as the dog’s anxiety levels, owner’s commitment, and the dog’s inherent traits. For some anxious dogs, improvement can be seen rapidly, such as increasing tolerance from 2 seconds to 20 minutes within a week. Others might experience a more gradual progress, from 5 seconds to 35 seconds over the course of a month. It’s crucial for pet owners to grasp the dedication needed to address symptoms of separation anxiety effectively. If you work from home or frequently need to close the door, the systemic desensitisation protocols implemented by CSAT professionals will ensure that the dog realises that these activities are not a big deal, thus slowly desensitising the dog to help manage anxieties. For a tailored plan and professional guidance, please schedule a call with our chief behaviourist to evaluate your dog’s specific animal behaviour needs.
How to train a dog out of separation anxiety?
Training a dog with separation anxiety requires a systematic and gentle approach, often best managed with the guidance of a certified separation anxiety trainer (CSAT). The foundational principles are recognising and addressing the activities you perform before leaving, known as pre-departure cues (PDQ), such as locking the door or picking up your keys. Begin the desensitization process without these cues, ensuring that the duration your dog is left alone varies and remains below their threshold of anxiety. Gradually, after your dog is comfortable being alone for increasing lengths of time, you can start to reintroduce the PDQs one at a time. Be prepared for potential setbacks as your dog adjusts. Continually repeat this process until your dog can handle all PDQs and achieve the desired duration of alone time. Though this is a simplified outline, partnering with a professional dog trainer for separation anxiety is crucial to effectively and humanely address your pet’s needs.
Remember, each dog’s journey with separation anxiety is unique, and professional guidance ensures a compassionate and successful outcome.
Which dog suffers most from Separation Anxiety?
While certain breeds can appear more susceptible to Separation Anxiety, it’s important to understand that any dog can be affected. This condition is a complex interplay of genetics and the environment in which a dog is raised. No definitive breed has been pinpointed as being more prone. Addressing this issue involves noticing the signs early on and using comforting techniques and gradual desensitisation. Remember, a loving and understanding environment plays a crucial role in easing their anxiety.
How do you prevent separation anxiety in dogs?
Separation anxiety in dogs can be challenging, but with the right approach, it can be managed effectively. While genetic factors and environmental triggers play significant roles, understanding the symptoms early on is crucial. It’s important to recognise signs like excessive barking, destructive behaviour, or accidents in the house. Once identified, collaborating with a professional separation anxiety trainer can help you create a customised plan to ease your dog’s anxiety. Remember, with patience and the right support, your dog can learn to feel more comfortable when alone.
Check out our article on home alone training for examples on what handlers should look out for to minimise the chances of separation anxiety developing in puppies.
Do Dogs grow out of Separation Anxiety?
Separation anxiety in dogs is a common concern and, unfortunately, it doesn’t usually resolve on its own. Addressing the issue through consistent training and supportive strategies can help manage and reduce anxiety symptoms over time. Ignoring the problem may lead to increased stress for your furry friend, making it harder to manage later on. Proactive steps, such as creating a comforting environment and gradually acclimating your dog to being alone, can significantly improve their well-being.
Do Treats help manage Separation Anxiety?
Many well-meaning pet owners use treats to ease separation anxiety, but this doesn’t address the real issue. Separation anxiety stems from the stress of your absence, not from introducing an aversive stimulus. When you leave, it triggers anxiety, which worsens the longer you’re gone. Research shows that pairing treats with your absence—known as counter-conditioning—doesn’t relieve anxiety and may even intensify it. This approach overlooks the core problem: your pet’s fear of being separated from you.
For a deeper understanding of why this method falls short, check out our detailed research breakdown of Shnookal et al. (2024).
Does Crate Training help with Separation Anxiety?
Crate training can provide a safe and comfortable space for your dog, but it is not a cure for separation anxiety. Dogs with separation anxiety feel stressed when they are left alone, and this anxiety can persist even when they are in their crate. Forcing your dog to be in a crate can also make your dog’s separation anxiety become worse, as they are unable to performing coping behaviours to alleviate their stress. You may also cause your dog to develop confinement anxiety or crate phobia! It’s important to address the underlying anxiety through gradual desensitisation and positive reinforcement to help your dog feel more secure when you’re not around.
Does ignoring your dog help with separation anxiety?
No, ignoring separation anxiety can actually make your dog’s distress worse. It’s important to address the issue with a kind yet structured approach, using techniques to help your dog feel more secure when you are away.
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